“Tu” or “Lei”? Friendly or formal conversation?

 

In Italian it is very important, in order not to make mistakes talking to somebody, to learn as soon as possible the difference between  two diffent verbal sujects: “Tu” and “Lei”.
“Tu” is used when you talk with a friend, a child, a family member or someone you know well.
Es: Paolo, tu come stai? Luigi dove vai?

“Lei” is very formal and used when you talk to someone you don’t know, or with whom you don’t have a friendship, such as, for example, in a business meeting, with a teacher at school, with a doctor in the hospital, when you go shopping, when you ask for information. Es: talking to the doctor: “dottore, come sta”?  Talking to the teacher at the school: Professore, dove va?

Be careful: we also use “Lei” for the feminine third person, but the meaning is different.
Es: talking about Maria, you can say: Lei (Maria) oggi va a Roma e torna domani.